Want to jazz things up a little in your relationship? We're here to help you to master the art of "sexting" like a pro! You don't have to be a whizz kid and be great at the English language. It's not a poetry essay you're writing!

For beginners and anyone looking for pointers, sexting is a great way to keep things flirty and fun, while staying connected to your partner. It keeps things spicy, boosts your sex appeal while recreating that loving, connected feeling we're often starved of. 

Here are some top pointers on how to sext the correct and safe way: 

Timing is everything. 

Best be aware of what your partner is up to before you initiate project sext 101. Send them a heads up, like a 'hey are you busy?' before going in.

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Don't stray too far from your comfort zone. 

Doesn't matter if you're a beginner or a pro veteran of sexting. Comfort is everything and can affect your level of when you're sexting. It can be just as innocent as "I can't wait to make love to you tonight" to something a little more risqué. Don't send something that makes you want to die internally and hide under your pillow. 

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Take things slowly.

Slow and steady honey. There's nothing less sexy than receiving one of those Tinder messages that are like "I wanna f*ck". Open the conversation, revealing you're ready to heat things up without being too direct. A cute selfie with a little smirk and cleavage, with a small 'Hey You' is a good way to get the ball rolling. 

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Roleplay helps.

Not only does this boost your confidence, but it also makes your fantasies into a reality. Remember you're playing a role and you're in control. You are the dominant, playful partner ready to get freaky with them. 

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Give 'em a heads up!

Please start with an 'NSFW' (Not safe for work) message before you send anything!

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Open up about your fantasies. 

It's not always easy to open about your sex fantasies with your partner person to person. It can get embarrassing. With sexting, you have the protection of your screen and the power of words to put your fantasies out there, without anyone judging you. 

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Memes and gifs are your best friends. 

If you're not versed in the emoji language, turn to memes and gifs! Use memes and gifs to supplement the sexiness of what you've written.

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Ask questions / Think of questions in advance. 

 It's always good to ask questions when you're sexting. You want to know if they're into what you're giving them. Sexting is still a conversation, a sexy one at that. This gives you an understanding of what your partner is thinking and assists in further painting an image of your fantasies. 

Most importantly....

Just have fun! 

Babe, just have fun! Even if you're a first-timer, just roll with it and enjoy the power and confidence it brings you! Good luck and remember, practice safe sex!